How to Be Happy & Fight Negative People

 Everybody wants to be happy and indeed there are so many reasons for one to feel joy. However, as ironic as it may seem, happiness seems to be so elusive for many. There are days when it is just so tempting to wallow in self pity and despair. Various factors can cause unhappiness – the situations we are in, the people in our lives etc.

Negativity (negative thoughts, negative people) is so real that it can fill our daily lives. If one is not careful, you may find yourself being swallowed away by these dark and destructive emotions.

But to be wise and happy, you should not let all the negativity put you down. To be really happy, we should cultivate the happiness inside ourselves, not on external and material things.

One can also find it easy to stay happy by thinking of the people who are dear to us, just like what this wonderful poem that I found says:

 “Think of Those Who Love You"

If someone should hurt you

and say a thing unkind...

Remember what I write to you

and keep these thoughts in mind.

For everyone who makes you cry,

there are three to make you smile...

And a smile will last a long, long time,

but a tear just a little while.

Don't let someone who hates the world

cause you to hate it too...

Behind the clouds is a Golden sun,

and a sky that's full of Blue.

If someone said a thing that's cruel,

don't let it get to you...

Your achievements are greatly numbered

and your faults are very few.

So if a certain person should act a certain way,

Think of those who love you

and don't let it spoil your day!

( Author Unknown ) 

Inspiring and Anonymous One-Liner Quotes About Life And Love

Above all else, guard your affection for they influence everything else in your life.

A hug is better than all the theology in the world

As long as you find pleasure in life's simple joys, you'll never be lonely.

Ask why until you understand.

Your mind is a terrible thing to waste.

Exit the room with your pride.

Each day is a little life. Make the most of it.

Expect miracles.

Life will sometimes hand you a magical moment. Savor it.

Live small, but always, always dream big dreams.

Life is the best teacher.

Love is work in action.

What's certain is uncertain.

You have to be first , best, or different.

There is a God.

Life is Beautiful No Matter What

There’s so much more to life than
finding someone who will want you,
or being sad over someone who doesn’t.

There’s a lot of wonderful time
to be spent discovering yourself
without hoping someone will fall in love
with you along the way,
and it doesn't need to be painful or empty.

You need to fill yourself up with love.
Not anyone else.
Become a whole being on your own.

Go on adventures,
fall asleep in the woods with friends,
wander around the city at night,
sit in a coffee shop on your own,
write on bathroom stalls,
leave notes in library books,
dress up for yourself,
give to others,
smile a lot.

Do all things with love,
but don't romanticize life
like you can’t survive without it.

Live for yourself and be happy on your own.
It isn’t any less beautiful, I promise."

—Emery Allen

Quotes About Life from Maya Angelou

"I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow. 

I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights. 
I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life. I’ve learned that making a “living” is not the same thing as making a “life.”
 
I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance. 

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back. 

I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision. 
I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be one. 

I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
 
I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn. I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."

— Maya Angelou

The A to Z of Successful Life

The A to Z of Successful Life

A-    Arrive a little early for every date or appointment.

B-    Be enthusiastic in everything you do.

C-    Complete every assigned task.

D-    Do a little bit more than what is required.

E-    Express yourself after you know the facts.

F-    Feel comfortable in every situation by being yourself.

G-    Go all out to serve others.

H-   Help and pray for your enemies.

I-      Inculcate positive values.

J-     Join in and help when you are needed.

K-    Keep your head cool; it will save you more trouble.

L-     Listen with your heart, not your ears.

M-   Make the best of what you have.

N-    Never say it is hard, instead try your best.

O-   Open your heart to those less fortunate than you.

P-    Please yourself by pleasing others.

Q-   Quickly respond to any emergency needs.

R-    Remember the spirit of Christmas should be everyday.

S-    Study as to excel in your profession.

T-     Take advantage of opportunity.

U-    Use spare time intelligently.

V-    Value your health.

W-  Work at your work.

X-    X-out any qualities that could lead to failure.

Y-    You are the most important asset. Treat it well, physically and emotionally.

Z-    Zestfully meet any challenge.